I never meet in a café--so many distractions, Yek! I never go to a blinddate dinner--Your Stuck, w/bill and she is awful.
I want to manage how things go. So I choose to meet at our cars outdoors only and in a stores wide--parking lot. So if things don't "Click" then we quit and leave fast.
So simple, it's ridiciously easy! Why waste time going to a dinner or other. Maybe the person is mean or ego thing. Who can tell. I just do this, this way. That's what I do. I'm happy w/it. Works for me. I dump allot of women that seem to conservative. No not from this nude site. I have not met locals. All they are here so far, is far far away in New York or east coast. So I use dont' contact, unless your local to my state. Wow...they still email me. I just delete those... I'm not into penpals or just friend thing. That's not why I am here. Go figure.... Keep trunking out there....CU